THE GO4IT WEEKLY

Your Weekly Spark to Dream Big, Do More, Go Far. Issue #13

THIS WEEK’S WORD
You cannot rent courage you have got to own it.

Simone had a notebook full of ideas.
Pages packed with dreams about starting her own event planning business,
launching a podcast, and even running a women’s leadership retreat.

The problem? Her dreams rarely made it past the pages.

Whenever an opportunity came to share her ideas in a meeting,
lead a group, or pitch herself for a project she froze.
Her mind would race: “What if I mess up?” “What if they think I’m not ready?”

One day after yet another missed moment,
Simone’s mentor leaned across the table and said:
“Confidence is not a hand-me-down it’s a house you build yourself.
And you build it one brick at a time.”

That sentence lit something inside her.
Simone realized she’d been waiting for confidence
to arrive instead of building it.

So, she decided no more waiting.
She would take one small brave action every day,
even if her voice shook.

  • Day 1: She spoke up in a small team huddle.

  • Day 4: She introduced herself to a guest speaker at a networking event.

  • Day 7: She volunteered to give the project update at work.

  • Day 14: She posted a short video sharing her story on social media.

  • Day 30: She stood at the front of the room giving a presentation she once would’ve avoided at all costs.

By the end of the month, Simone wasn’t a different person
she was the same woman… only now she believed in her own voice.

Her takeaway? Confidence is a muscle. The more you work it, the stronger it gets.


FROM COACH TYUS

Confidence is not a personality trait, it’s a process.
You can’t borrow it from a friend, rent it from a mentor,
or fake it until you make it.
You build it brick by brick through consistent, courageous action.

Every time you speak up, show up, or try again after falling short,
you’re laying another brick.
One day, you’ll look around and realize the foundation
you have been building is now a fortress you can stand in.

This week, stop waiting to “feel” ready.

  • Take the step.

  • Say the words.

  • Start the thing.

Your voice, your vision, and your value are worth the work.
Stay focused. Stay ready. Move forward.

— Coach Tyus

GO4IT LIFE PILLARS 
Follow-Through Focus

Train Past Comfort
Strength shows up when you practice it.

Simone didn’t start with a 60-minute workout.
She started with 10 minutes a day.
Those 10 minutes stacked into a habit. The habit built her strength.
And the strength built her confidence.

Your GO4IT Move
 Pick one physical challenge to repeat daily
(push-ups, squats, walking, stretching).
 Increase the reps, time, or resistance every week small steps
forward are still forward.

Practice Small Wins
Wealth confidence grows with every wise choice.
Simone used to avoid looking at her bank account
it made her feel behind.
Instead, she decided to win small: tracking one spending category
at a time. It built her financial confidence without overwhelm.

Your GO4IT Move
 Pick one category (groceries, eating out, subscriptions)
to monitor for 30 days.
 Celebrate when you stay within your limit
it’s proof you can trust yourself with money.

Step Up to Lead Moments
Confidence in family life grows when you
create the moments you’ve been waiting for.

Simone wanted her family to connect more,
so she started a simple Sunday dinner.
No big production, just a meal and conversation.
It became their anchor, and she felt more confident
as the “glue” of her home.

Your GO4IT Move
Create one consistent family tradition this month.
Protect it like an important appointment.

Make the First Move
Courage is contagious.

Instead of waiting for her friends to reach out,
Simone decided to go first.
She sent one intentional message a week.
That one move multiplied connection.

Your GO4IT Move
 Choose one person to reach out to weekly.
 Be specific: send an encouragement, a check-in,
or an invite.

 

BTry Before You’re Ready
You’ll never feel 100% ready build while you go.

Simone stopped disqualifying herself
from opportunities because she didn’t feel prepared.
She applied for the ones that scared her and figured
things out along the way.

Your GO4IT Move
 Apply for something that stretches you work,
school, ministry, business.
 Let the challenge shape you.

Step into the Deep
Faith grows in action, not theory.

Simone realized she’d been waiting
for a big spiritual moment before acting on God’s nudge.
Instead, she took the small step in front of her
like leading prayer in her small group.

Your GO4IT Move
Identify the last thing you felt God was asking you to do.
Doing it without overthinking obedience builds spiritual confidence


DREAM TOOL OF THE WEEK
The Confidence Ladder Worksheet

Write down your next 7 brave steps, from easiest to hardest.
Complete one each day and watch your courage rise.


Download yours today → The Confidence Ladder Worksheet


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GO4IT CHALLENGE OF THE WEEK

List 3 actions that scare you just enough to stretch you.
Do one every day for the next 7 days.
Remember confidence doesn’t arrive. It’s built. And the builder is you.

 Use #GO4ITChallenge and tag @go4itmovement
We will celebrate your step and your faith.

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See you next Friday.

GO4IT.

Coach Tyus